41 years old (168/60), born in Lisbon, Portugal, then exported to Paris and finally imported back 18 years later. I never really realised where my sexual fantasies were going to, until I met GummIan. As a matter of fact, as far as I can remember, I always had some specific attractions. Very much centred into "men" things and symbols: for instance, all kind uniforms, military or not, all the external attires marking men presence. Leather is my preferred attire: it adds a special touch and... smell! And it also enhances the masculine shapes of a man. Having already a significant part of my life on the back of me, I fortunately can say that I have realised a good part of my more trivial sexual fantasies. Guess I have reached the point to explore some deepest expectations.

I discovered that much can be added to the sexual pleasure when letting our mind free to embrace some associations: playing can become much wild and fun. I am rather top for many reasons, namely because I always have been playing an active role in my life (sexual or not) and because I have to admit that loosing control is not a natural behaviour for me. However, I would state myself as versatile, considering that the proper partner can lead me to accept a more passive role. But he really has to play on the fact that I love to give pleasure...

I am a cock-lover; I have all the kind of fantasies around cocks and balls, including mine! Another big fun is connected with assplay, dildos and other gadgets, even medical... and it is impressive the different kind of things that can be done with a rope... Fist fucking just came very much in line with my preferences, very naturally I should say. Although in a very early stage of this kind of play, I am proud to say that I love both positions: top or bottom and I really agree that a good top significantly improves his abilities if able to be bottom.